being misgendered hurts on so many levels.
by assuming someones pronouns, you are not only risking causing them distress, but also reinforcing the false idea that appearance = pronouns. It does not!!
it’s a privilege not to have to worry about how someone will gender you, as a result of how they perceive your gender identity.
if you’re not sure, USE THEY/THEM until you are.
let’s stop assuming people’s pronouns