being selective with the pronouns you use for a person, or just using one set you’re most comfortable with, shows a disregard for their gender identity / expression.
if someone has multiple sets of pronouns, ask how they would like you to use them. if in doubt, use them all interchangeably – the same goes for people with more than 2 sets of pronouns.
for example (she/they)
“i really like them. she is a great person and they make me laugh”
these small changes may seem hard to begin with, but the more we practice and try the more it’ll become second nature to us. we must put the effort in.